They don't teach you how to truly be ready for marriage....because it isn't easy and it isn't really what you think it is. Marriage is a commitment, a compromise, an understanding of different minds, thoughts, feelings, desires and futures. What it is not is a party, a white dress, a band, a photographer and gifts.… Continue reading what they don’t teach you
We have all dated that person, the one that is never quite ready for a commitment (with you). They drive you to the brink of insanity and then pull you back with incredible passion that you have never experienced before. They bring out a side to you that you didn't know you had in you. … Continue reading You may be the emotionally unavailable one, here’s why!
I spent nearly three years alone.... After two failed marriages - I was desperate to find me. The only way I could figure out how was to go deep, go inward and spend time in solitude and it was a choice, my choice to do this until I felt I was strong enough to not… Continue reading I wont lose myself again
Infidelity can rock your world and turn it upside down. True healing from infidelity is a long hard and painful process full of many ups and downs. When you come out the other side, you truly are a different person. Stronger, smarter and more aware of how fragile your soul can be. You learn that… Continue reading why infidelity will never plague my life again
Letting go of the past and not letting it define you. Easier said than done, I know. But if you look at the past as a means of learning and if you don't allow yourself to live in the past, you can redefine your future and use all the lessons you have learned to do… Continue reading The Key to Happiness Is….
I empower you to ask yourself the following questions: Are you living as the best version of yourself? Are you living your life in a way that brings you peace and contentment? Am I honoring myself and truly living my best life? The following will help you as you do the work to become your… Continue reading Becoming the best You!
Would you date yourself? I have been empowering myself the past few days to really figure out who I am, what makes me tick, what I want and who I want to spend the rest of my life with. The message I received is...."would you date yourself?" Chances are, if I don't want to be… Continue reading Be who you wish to meet!
Did you know that the people you surround yourself with are reflections of certain parts of yourself (ironically they are usually the parts you don't quite like). These people are your "mirror". What does this mean? Quite simply, we attract what we are (or ourselves). Ever notice something irritating or infuriating about someone...could be your… Continue reading The Mirror
I am 45 years old and have recently discovered something that was missing from my life, yep, you guessed it, expectations. Despite having one too many expectations of myself (yes, this is the curse of being an over-achiever) I virtually had no expectations of others in my life. I am currently working on this. In… Continue reading expectations, do you have them?
Whether you have initiated the break up or have been broken up with it's important to understand the lesson you are supposed to learn from the experience. It's so easy to focus or dwell on the good times and the things that you miss about the relationship but it is important to recognize what you… Continue reading – what is it that you need from a relationship? –