I am a self-proclaimed expert in the art of self-love and self-care. I have gone from abusing myself in many many ways to falling madly in love with myself on so many levels. Self-love is such a personal thing that it is almost impossible for me to tell someone exactly how to love themselves, however, … Continue reading Honor Yourself
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Is it pragmatic or magical thinking?
A few years ago during a session with my one of my therapists we discussed (what else?) relationships....present, past and potential. When he asked me what it was that I wanted out from a relationship and a partner, my response was that I had already received exactly what I had asked for…my ex-husband. I felt … Continue reading Is it pragmatic or magical thinking?
Why confidence is everything in life
“Confidence… thrives on honesty, on honor, on the sacredness of obligations, on faithful protection and on unselfish performance. Without them it cannot live.”– Franklin D. Roosevelt Confidence is everything! How can you can get to a place where you can feel confident in all areas of your life? Good question, that is the struggle that … Continue reading Why confidence is everything in life
How well do you know yourself?
Through the process of self-discovery I realized, sadly, that I had not been living my life in an authentic way. I was so concerned with what people thought of me and how other people saw me that I wasn’t even remotely being my true self. After much time alone, in self-discovery and healing mode, I … Continue reading How well do you know yourself?
A breakup can be a blessing in disguise
Although breakups tend to be incredibly painful, even when we initiate them, a lot of times they are a gift. When we separate from someone we love, the feelings can be very overwhelming and most of the time unbearable. We really do go through the five stages of grief: denial.anger.bargaining.depression.acceptance. For anyone who has lost … Continue reading A breakup can be a blessing in disguise
What is stopping you from being your best self?
The answer is you! Yes, that's right, you hold the power. What does it mean to be your best self? It means living life with intention, direction, purpose and within your own moral compass. Living your best life as you are and accepting yourself as is while striving to be the best you. There is … Continue reading What is stopping you from being your best self?
Steps to Healing from “Toxic”
Toxic by Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby via daily post: Toxic I read this fantastic article by Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby and identified with it completely so I thought I would take the time and write a short blog about healing and what this looks like to me, personally. To some people who are knee deep in … Continue reading Steps to Healing from “Toxic”
Be who you wish to meet!
Would you date yourself? I have been empowering myself the past few months to really dig deep and figure out who I am, what I want and who I want to spend the rest of my life with. The intuitive message I received is...."would you date yourself?" Chances are, if I don't want to be with … Continue reading Be who you wish to meet!
are you a light worker?
So I recently discovered in a reading that I had with my favorite medium that I am what is called a "lightworker". I wrote this word down in my notes that I took during my reading and didn't think much of it. Her words were - "You are a lightworker - so shine - but … Continue reading are you a light worker?
Relationship Red Flags You Should Never Ignore
As if life isn't difficult enough, add dating to the equation and it can feel impossible. Especially in the swipe right culture. Let's just say that with so much "candy" in the dating store to choose from, how can anyone feel secure? This article is to remind you of the red flags you should never … Continue reading Relationship Red Flags You Should Never Ignore