expectations, do you have them?

I am 47 years old (about to be 48 in a few days) and have recently discovered something that was missing from my life, yep, you guessed it, expectations and boundaries. Having grown up in an abusive, dysfunctional and very chaotic environment I was never taught how to exist in any other way.  Healthy relationships … Continue reading expectations, do you have them?

Learning to live in the calm

I read a fantastic article the other day that really resonated with me.  The writer was referencing how a lot of us have a difficult time living in the calm, therefore we [subconsciously] create our own drama just so we feel something. Sometimes, life can be too calm and in that calmness, for those of who … Continue reading Learning to live in the calm

Recovery from Love Addiction – 101

A treatment program that you can do from the privacy of your Home As a recovered love addict / co-dependent I am able to provide unwavering support and guidance to the Love Addict (and Love Avoidant) as they embark their painful and necessary Journey of recovery. (please note: it is critical that the specified time … Continue reading Recovery from Love Addiction – 101

what they don’t teach you

They don't teach you how to truly be ready for marriage....because it isn't easy and it isn't really what you think it is. Marriage is a commitment, a compromise, an understanding of different minds, thoughts, feelings, desires and futures. What it is not is a party, a white dress, a band, a photographer and gifts. … Continue reading what they don’t teach you

You may be the emotionally unavailable one, here’s why!

We have all dated that person, the one that is never quite ready for a commitment (with you).  They drive you to the brink of insanity and then pull you back with incredible passion that you have never experienced before.  They bring out a side to you that you didn't know you had in you.  … Continue reading You may be the emotionally unavailable one, here’s why!

why infidelity will never plague my life again

Infidelity can rock your world and turn it upside down. True healing from infidelity is a long hard and painful process full of many ups and downs. When you come out the other side, you truly are a different person. Stronger, smarter and more aware of how fragile your soul can be. You learn that … Continue reading why infidelity will never plague my life again