I am 47 years old (about to be 48 in a few days) and have recently discovered something that was missing from my life, yep, you guessed it, expectations and boundaries. Having grown up in an abusive, dysfunctional and very chaotic environment I was never taught how to exist in any other way. Healthy relationships … Continue reading expectations, do you have them?
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If it leaves, let it go
As a society we fear loss. Even if we are fearing to lose something that no longer serves us, we hang on tight for dear life in hopes to prevent losing whatever it is we are holding on to. We need to ask ourselves, what exactly are we holding on to and why? Is it … Continue reading If it leaves, let it go
Learning to live in the calm
I read a fantastic article the other day that really resonated with me. The writer was referencing how a lot of us have a difficult time living in the calm, therefore we [subconsciously] create our own drama just so we feel something. Sometimes, life can be too calm and in that calmness, for those of who … Continue reading Learning to live in the calm
Recovery from Love Addiction – 101
A treatment program that you can do from the privacy of your Home As a recovered love addict / co-dependent I am able to provide unwavering support and guidance to the Love Addict (and Love Avoidant) as they embark their painful and necessary Journey of recovery. (please note: it is critical that the specified time … Continue reading Recovery from Love Addiction – 101
what they don’t teach you
They don't teach you how to truly be ready for marriage....because it isn't easy and it isn't really what you think it is. Marriage is a commitment, a compromise, an understanding of different minds, thoughts, feelings, desires and futures. What it is not is a party, a white dress, a band, a photographer and gifts. … Continue reading what they don’t teach you
You may be the emotionally unavailable one, here’s why!
We have all dated that person, the one that is never quite ready for a commitment (with you). They drive you to the brink of insanity and then pull you back with incredible passion that you have never experienced before. They bring out a side to you that you didn't know you had in you. … Continue reading You may be the emotionally unavailable one, here’s why!
I wont lose myself again
I spent nearly three years alone.... After two failed marriages - I was desperate to find me. The only way I could figure out how was to go deep, go inward and spend time in solitude and it was a choice, my choice to do this until I felt I was strong enough to not … Continue reading I wont lose myself again
why infidelity will never plague my life again
Infidelity can rock your world and turn it upside down. True healing from infidelity is a long hard and painful process full of many ups and downs. When you come out the other side, you truly are a different person. Stronger, smarter and more aware of how fragile your soul can be. You learn that … Continue reading why infidelity will never plague my life again
The Key to Happiness Is….
Letting go of the past and not letting it define you. Easier said than done, I know. But if you look at the past as a means of learning and if you don't allow yourself to live in the past, you can redefine your future and use all the lessons you have learned to do … Continue reading The Key to Happiness Is….
Becoming the best You!
I empower you to ask yourself the following questions: Are you living as the best version of yourself? Are you living your life in a way that brings you peace and contentment? Am I honoring myself and truly living my best life? The following will help you as you do the work to become your … Continue reading Becoming the best You!
