Many years ago I heard the term "inner child" which I found to be quite an intriguing concept and one that I would have loved to explore, however, I didn't give it much thought and actually dismissed it. After my first divorce, being left with two very small children to raise on my own I … Continue reading listen to that inner child
As a society we fear loss. Even if we are fearing to lose something that no longer serves us, we hang on tight for dear life in hopes to prevent losing whatever it is we are holding on to. We need to ask ourselves, what exactly are we holding on to and why? Is it … Continue reading If it leaves, let it go
I read a fantastic article the other day that really resonated with me. The writer was referencing how a lot of us have a difficult time living in the calm, therefore we [subconsciously] create our own drama just so we feel something. Sometimes, life can be too calm and in that calmness, for those of who … Continue reading Learning to live in the calm
A treatment program that you can do from the privacy of your Home As a recovered love addict / co-dependent I am able to provide unwavering support and guidance to the Love Addict (and Love Avoidant) as they embark their painful and necessary Journey of recovery. (please note: it is critical that the specified time … Continue reading Recovery from Love Addiction – 101
We have all dated that person, the one that is never quite ready for a commitment (with you). They drive you to the brink of insanity and then pull you back with incredible passion that you have never experienced before. They bring out a side to you that you didn't know you had in you. … Continue reading You may be the emotionally unavailable one, here’s why!
I am sure you have heard the term "abandonment issues" at some point in your life. We usually reference it when speaking of an insecure person, or someone who has an insecure attachment and experiences anxiety within the relationship. Abandonment issues are not to be taken lightly, they are real and if you are someone … Continue reading surviving abandonment
The most important thing about anxiety is to understand what it truly is. Anxiety is fear.Anxiety is lack of control.Anxiety is worry.Anxiety is self created (most of the time).Anxiety can be controlled. There are different types of anxiety, so I encourage you to educate yourself on the signs and symptoms and type of anxiety that … Continue reading How to relieve anxiety without meds by “grounding” or “earthing”
When you are in a place of healing and know that you have hit a wall, you have worked with a therapist and / or life coach to identify the causes of the issues you are experiencing, you have journaled, meditated and created a self care routine but you still feel like you are stuck … Continue reading Steps to Clearing Emotional Pain
- The only way over it, is through it! - Anxiety is a fear based emotion and/or feeling. It is the feeling of a lack of control. However, it can exist only if we feed it. We feed anxiety by either by living in the past and wishing for a different outcome or by trying … Continue reading Anxiety
I haven't written in a few days mainly because I have been dealing with intense muscle knots that have turned into a perceived pinched nerve. Let's just say I have gone a little koo koo trying to figure out how to "fix" me and feel better. During my meditation yesterday I started sobbing...you know that … Continue reading Emotional pain and how it affects us..