I am a self-proclaimed expert in the art of self-love and self-care. I have gone from abusing myself in many many ways to falling madly in love with myself on so many levels. Self-love is such a personal thing that it is almost impossible for me to tell someone exactly how to love themselves, however, … Continue reading Honor Yourself
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How to manifest your perfect partner
Start with Self! Yes, it all starts with you. Take stock in who you are and perform a self evaluation...ask yourself yourself the following questions: would you date yourself?what do you have to offer someone else?what do you want from a partner?what does a healthy relationship look like to you?are you emotionally available?have you fully … Continue reading How to manifest your perfect partner
Is it pragmatic or magical thinking?
A few years ago during a session with my one of my therapists we discussed (what else?) relationships....present, past and potential. When he asked me what it was that I wanted out from a relationship and a partner, my response was that I had already received exactly what I had asked for…my ex-husband. I felt … Continue reading Is it pragmatic or magical thinking?
What is stopping you from being your best self?
The answer is you! Yes, that's right, you hold the power. What does it mean to be your best self? It means living life with intention, direction, purpose and within your own moral compass. Living your best life as you are and accepting yourself as is while striving to be the best you. There is … Continue reading What is stopping you from being your best self?
they are not ours
There I was on the floor of our foyer, tears streaming from my face, her face is the only thing I can see...as I wail and scream out to no one "give him back, he is mine". That day feels like a lifetime ago and as if it was yesterday all at the same time. … Continue reading they are not ours
are you a light worker?
So I recently discovered in a reading that I had with my favorite medium that I am what is called a "lightworker". I wrote this word down in my notes that I took during my reading and didn't think much of it. Her words were - "You are a lightworker - so shine - but … Continue reading are you a light worker?
Relationship Red Flags You Should Never Ignore
As if life isn't difficult enough, add dating to the equation and it can feel impossible. Especially in the swipe right culture. Let's just say that with so much "candy" in the dating store to choose from, how can anyone feel secure? This article is to remind you of the red flags you should never … Continue reading Relationship Red Flags You Should Never Ignore
Them..
She was a beautiful woman....but she never saw it or felt it. She was tall, had beautiful thick blonde hair, a curvy figure and beautiful brown eyes. I would love to say she had a beautiful smile, but I can't, she rarely smiled if ever and this is confirmed by every picture ever taken of … Continue reading Them..
listen to that inner child
Many years ago I heard the term "inner child" which I found to be quite an intriguing concept and one that I would have loved to explore, however, I didn't give it much thought and actually dismissed it. After my first divorce, being left with two very small children to raise on my own I … Continue reading listen to that inner child