They don't teach you how to truly be ready for marriage....because it isn't easy and it isn't really what you think it is. Marriage is a commitment, a compromise, an understanding of different minds, thoughts, feelings, desires and futures. What it is not is a party, a white dress, a band, a photographer and gifts.… Continue reading what they don’t teach you
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I wont lose myself again
I spent nearly three years alone.... After two failed marriages - I was desperate to find me. The only way I could figure out how was to go deep, go inward and spend time in solitude and it was a choice, my choice to do this until I felt I was strong enough to not… Continue reading I wont lose myself again
How to move forward gracefully after a divorce
Let's face it, divorce, and break-ups in general, are very difficult to process and move on from. For many reasons, separating from the person we love leaves us feeling lost and desperate for answers. Many times we blame ourselves in hopes that if we take ownership of the breakup we can then fix whatever is… Continue reading How to move forward gracefully after a divorce
– what is it that you need from a relationship? –
Whether you have initiated the break up or have been broken up with it's important to understand the lesson you are supposed to learn from the experience. It's so easy to focus or dwell on the good times and the things that you miss about the relationship but it is important to recognize what you… Continue reading – what is it that you need from a relationship? –
– be what you wish to attract –
Today is my mental - day one - in manifesting my most precious desire (notice I didn't say..need) - a healthy, supportive and loving relationship. For so long, like ever, I have attracted and engaged in very unhealthy relationships and yes by now we all know why...I had not healed my childhood wounds and I… Continue reading – be what you wish to attract –
The tapestry of life
Life is this intricate tapestry filled with many different patterns that ultimately take their own unique twists and turns to create the design, as you follow the tapestries threads from the back they look jumbled..tied together and knotted with no real purpose. However, when you turn the tapestry over, you see exactly what each thread… Continue reading The tapestry of life
Discovery through journaling…
Journaling has been an incredible healing and development tool in my life and also for those who have mentored me. Therapists, coaches and teachers all recommend journaling as a tool for healing from traumatic events as well as for personal development, goal setting, learning and discovering what is holding you back etc. I fully encourage… Continue reading Discovery through journaling…
Things to do while you are single..
I have always been in long term relationships or at least long term dating. I grew up in a dysfunctional home therefore I had no concept of what a "healthy relationship" was, I just knew I was happiest when I was in a relationship, even if it wasn't good for me. I used to call… Continue reading Things to do while you are single..
8 Critical Tips for Self-Love and Healing
I know what you are thinking, what is self-love and where do I even begin. If you Google self-love there will be many articles and blogs that will help you on this topic. I have read every single one of them, ok maybe not every single one, and now I am a self proclaimed expert… Continue reading 8 Critical Tips for Self-Love and Healing
Life with a Narcassist
What seemed like a perfect story book romance - two childhood best friends reuniting and forming a beautiful bond and eventually getting married - (with many red flags which I ignored) ended up being a complete nightmare for every single person involved. It took me years to figure out what the issue was. There was… Continue reading Life with a Narcassist
