I have the hardest time understanding things sometimes and maybe I am not meant to! I have always been driven to look for a deeper meaning and know the “why” behind everything, almost like its a soul quest. That is my purpose! At this point in my life, I am working on some pretty big … Continue reading love is just as complicated as you!
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The Mirror
I am sure you have heard, at least once in your life, that the people you surround yourself with are actually reflections of certain parts of yourself (ironically, they are usually the parts you don't quite like and that need changing). These people are your "mirror". What does this mean? Quite simply, we attract what … Continue reading The Mirror
Simple steps to dating and relationship success
The struggle isn't real, its perceived, dating can be fun if that is what you choose- self The dreaded dating app, the one we all download but don't want to. We curse ourselves and the app for having to use it but our logical mind says how else will the Universe know what to bring … Continue reading Simple steps to dating and relationship success
what does your story say about you?
It takes a great and deeper understanding of self to know that within this life - lives the story of your life - which is your script that lays out your wants, needs, desires, and cravings or maybe a lack thereof. The cool part is, its your story to figure out. No else else can … Continue reading what does your story say about you?
what the f&$k is self love?
I love when people ask me that? My response is always the same, its personal to YOU! My personal definition of self love is awareness, its being kind to yourself, trusting yourself, asking yourself for advice before you run to others. Its trusting that you will not abandon or neglect yourself. Its being incredibly comfortable … Continue reading what the f&$k is self love?
How to move forward gracefully after a divorce
Let's face it, divorce, and break-ups in general, are very difficult to process and move on from. For many reasons, separating from the person we love leaves us feeling lost and desperate for answers. Many times we blame ourselves in hopes that if we take ownership of the breakup we can then fix whatever is … Continue reading How to move forward gracefully after a divorce
Honor Yourself
I am a self-proclaimed expert in the art of self-love and self-care. I have gone from abusing myself in many many ways to falling madly in love with myself on so many levels. I love Self Care! Self-love is such a personal thing that it is almost impossible for me to tell someone exactly how … Continue reading Honor Yourself
You should be your own best friend
It sounds cliché, but as we struggle with so many life situations, which sometimes for us it means learning how to forge forward during really tough times, it is important to be grounded in who we are and focus on what brings us joy. I do believe in joy, whatever package that comes in, because … Continue reading You should be your own best friend
Allow your past lovers to be your greatest teachers
For now, this moment, let us try to understand what brought us to where we are. Let us be kind to ourselves as we dive deep into our soul and carve out a space for acceptance as we recognize each and every person that has brought us to life and to the depths of despair … Continue reading Allow your past lovers to be your greatest teachers
let go of the story, it is no longer serving you
In a time that seems and feels so dark where we focus only on the lack, the dysfunction and the pain we feel, I find its time to shift that perspective that will help us to find our happy place. Let's leave all of those thoughts behind us and focus on what is vs. what … Continue reading let go of the story, it is no longer serving you